--- layout: post status: publish published: true title: The door is opening.. author: display_name: gift9sipp login: gift9sipp email: jummum@mycapsules.com url: http:// author_login: gift9sipp author_email: jummum@mycapsules.com author_url: http:// wordpress_id: 62 wordpress_url: http://jummum.mycapsules.com/2008/05/01/the-door-is-opening/ date: '2008-05-01 09:29:40 +0700' date_gmt: '2008-05-01 09:29:40 +0700' categories: - About Me!! tags: [] comments: - id: 29 author: '10' author_email: Sipp11@mycapsules.com author_url: '' date: '2008-05-05 07:31:25 +0700' date_gmt: '2008-05-05 07:31:25 +0700' content: "Now you just need to walk thru the door with confidence, strength in both body and mind. With all these, I'm sure you could get anything you possibly dream of very soon.\r\n\r\n:-> have a good journey..." --- There are so many doors people have got to pass along their lives. Does anyone agree with me that life is challenging? It's like we have to pass the test before getting to the next level, and sometimes we get lost and go to the way that we have never expected. However, that we have no plan for the way we're on might be a great opportunity and change. No one knows what's going to happen next, and the future is hidden as its nature. I can't explain how awesome that we're in this position. In my opinion, every obstacles is the test. If you can't pass it, the next door is still closed. Many times, people fail and be hopeless, but luckily, we have choices to choose; for example, doing it again and again, avoiding this path and finding a new one, giving up and stay put, living in their dreams doing nothing to improve themselves, or ask for subsidization. After we pick an alternative, things change. So, that means the next doors also switch. > "No pain, no gain" In order to succeed in something, we've got to do something to get it. Compare to fairy tales, leaders must be challenged by another side which is always bad side in the stories, and they will achieve after a grand fighting and being the winners. This kind of stories, by the way, is a really good way for kids to learn how life is. Anyway, I think most people use Defense Mechanism unconsciously in order not to be hurt. We never realize that we do it but learn how to use it automatically. Therefore, people who do well in Defense Mechanism will be fine in hard situations. For me, the door in front of me is opening after I get lost for a while. I don't know what's behind the door yet; nevertheless, I'm sure that hard working is coming so soon. Moreover, I'm living with my family's expectation, so I'll do my best, be positive, and try to get rid of stress. OMG!! I'm just about to smile :D My door is opening. What about yours? Did you find it?